This is a lot of good stuff. Sorry, Iwas away at Mopar Nats this weekend so I couldn't chime in. I'll try to cover some of the questions here.
As far as the color of my charger it is original ew1 and I am keeping it the stock white.
I am looking to sell this car as soon as it is done, I have a baby on the way and a garage to be built, so I am looking for value alone. So would enamel get me more?
As far as the wax issues you brought up, AdamR said it best.
As far as the clearcoat and single stage paints coming off on cars that were newer, here is what happens. When the factories shut down their facilities on certain days a car could just be getting sprayed with the factory sealer and the car could sit for too long before the basecoat was applied. a sealer has to have the basecoat applied, usually under an hour depending on conditions like temp, humidity, etc. otherwise it has to be scuffed down, in which an automotive factory will not do. They will turn on the machines again and just start where they left off. there was a point in time, when GM cars that were built on a friday had their paint coming off, because on monday they would start up the machines and the car sat all weekend in sealer, and they would just spray away.
I have been painting/restoring cars for over 20 years, just in case anyone is wondering. I am just trying to figure out what is popular and get the most out of this car.