I think this is the first year since 1982 that we won't be having a tree. The kids are gone, we're going to one of our sons' house to have the family Christmas this year, so it just wasn't worth the effort.
shame, shame, shame... lol..
Seriously though, A good friend of my fathers (known him since i was born, always thought he was my uncle) sets his tree up every year, lives alone, his wife passed away young (maybe 40-45), he raised his 2 kids almost alone and they have no kids, both live 500-700+ miles away, and they come for thanksgiving but not xmas (I know this because they were just at my house for thanksgiving and have come for the last 4 years).
and he sets up that tree EVERY year!!! I asked my father why (I would never bring it up to him), and my ole' man said "He puts that tree up to remember all the times the kids and Terry (his wife) were there putting it up with him" ...
I was thinking, hes not crazy about xmas, he has no one over, he has no gifts under it, why set up a tree, no one can see it from outside, its in the back of his house, whats the point? But that one sentence and it made all the sense in the world... He puts that tree up, ornament by ornament remembering all the times he did it with his family...
I know when I put up my tree, I love the ornaments that my kids made when they were younger, when we go somewhere we buy ornaments, so I see one from las vegas, I think of me and my wife at coyote ugly's drinking too much and walking into the wrong hotel room, I see the few my mother gave me from her tree and think about all the times me, my brothers, sister, and parents setup our tree, all the houses we lived in, the couple years we went with out presents, lol... That tree is a lot more than just a giant pain in the *** to setup, lol, its all the years before that lead us to where we are now...
That being said, I joke about it, but I hope I never go a year with out putting up the tree...