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^^^^^^^^What he said....
Ask yourself this KD....1. What do you gain by helping him? If the answer is that you satisfy your own need to be true to yourself, then that's not a good enough reason. He has to contribute SOMETHING to the deal.
If your motivation is due to the issue that you took something apart and you feel like you should put it back together, THAT is not enough, because these are not easy single jobs. They are multiple small and large jobs that eventually make a drivable car.
Just putting your piece back together wont finish the whole. Nor will it release you from his aims to have you do the whole thing. See? It would be different if you could reasonably expect to get a thank you and a hand shake after your part is done and then not hear from him again, but, it doesn't sound like that will be the case.
Cut your losses and tell him goodbye, and WHY your telling him. He will either get it, or not. Something tells me he has been doing this sort of thing for his entire life and it's part of his personality. It's why he has no friends.
Remember the guy that wanted me to sell his collection of engine blocks and heads? He is still calling me and wanting me to help him, after what he did to me. I answered one time and his first comment was , " Well, didn't you want those heads?" See, he thought he could entice me to spend countless hours of my time selling his **** over the internet, doing all of the work while he sits on his ***, ALL for a set of heads that I will have to clean up to use. These sort of people just don't think like normal people.
Ask yourself this KD....1. What do you gain by helping him? If the answer is that you satisfy your own need to be true to yourself, then that's not a good enough reason. He has to contribute SOMETHING to the deal.
If your motivation is due to the issue that you took something apart and you feel like you should put it back together, THAT is not enough, because these are not easy single jobs. They are multiple small and large jobs that eventually make a drivable car.
Just putting your piece back together wont finish the whole. Nor will it release you from his aims to have you do the whole thing. See? It would be different if you could reasonably expect to get a thank you and a hand shake after your part is done and then not hear from him again, but, it doesn't sound like that will be the case.
Cut your losses and tell him goodbye, and WHY your telling him. He will either get it, or not. Something tells me he has been doing this sort of thing for his entire life and it's part of his personality. It's why he has no friends.
Remember the guy that wanted me to sell his collection of engine blocks and heads? He is still calling me and wanting me to help him, after what he did to me. I answered one time and his first comment was , " Well, didn't you want those heads?" See, he thought he could entice me to spend countless hours of my time selling his **** over the internet, doing all of the work while he sits on his ***, ALL for a set of heads that I will have to clean up to use. These sort of people just don't think like normal people.