Since you have checked your connections and
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Using a picture of the starter relay previously posted by a FBBO member.
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Step 1, Ignition off, car in neutral - Short terminals "B" & "S". An old unwanted screwdriver works just fine. This will provide 12V direct to the starter solinoid & starter. This will be bypassing the relay and everything behind the two poles. If the starter reacts as a good starter should, the starter will spin and continue to spin as long as you maintain that short. You have just tested the starter and the solenoid.
Step 2, Ignition off, car in neurtal - Short terminals "B" and "I". You are now testing the starter relay by simulating power from the Keys Start position. If it does not turn the starter, then you have one of two possibilities, 1 the relay is bad or 2 ground is not present at terminal "G" (from Neutral Safety Switch, Ground supplied PK and Neutral only).
If all functions properly at that point we keep looking back at the points to test. The next item is the ignition switches responsibility to provide 12V to terminal "I" on the starter relay. It's time to get out the old voltmeter and someone inside at the switch start looking for voltage.