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dadsbee said:
I'd walk into a group of women and ask "who wants to go to Hawaii" before I'd take her with me.
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Yeap! Cut it off and find someone else even if it's a friend or family.

Wants to date other guys... talk about a kick in the nuts! Umm no, I'm not taking you on a nice vacation! I'd rather take a stuffed animal and :jackoff: then treat you to a good time:hifu:
 
I'd take a blow up doll before I'd take her! I wouldn't pay for her to get a vacation to rest up for her new found life..... a life without you. You deserve better than that.
 
Don’t give her the satisfaction of getting one over on you one last time. Take someone else whether friend, family member, etc...
 
Here is a suggestion. Ask Your brother what he thinks.
You said you'll be staying with him. I wonder what he thinks of a female that breaks it off but still wants to be "friends" when it comes to extravagant vacations.
My brother lives 1200 miles from me and I KNOW what he would say If I said something to him like that. If it was me, I'd hook up with her best friend and take her to Hawaii and send pictures back.
 
Welcome to Hawaii!!!
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I'd start the hating, oops, i mean healing process immediately, and take ANYBODY else.
And i would bet large she's got somebody new in mind, if not already in her bed. I've never been dumped by a woman who wasnt banging my replacement first.
 
Well, taking her to Hawaii would be like rewarding her for her choices. She doesn't deserve the trip.

EDIT: I wanted to add to this. You would not give your puppy a milkbone if it just chewed up your cowboy boots would you?
 
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Really what did you expect? Did you think she'd commit to staying with you as you aged and she was so younger? You described her in another thread as a more or less party girl, the good times.
She had fun and you had fun but the reality is she grew tired of you, the age difference was too much and she told you as much.
She did you a favour, if she wants to break it off, no strings attached, no BS, than consider yourself a lucky man and move on
Maybe find yourself a woman closer to your own age who knows what she wants and is willing to commit and be honest
 
Suppose you met a nice woman while in Hawaii... It would be a lot less awkward if you didn't have to explain why your ex-girlfriend was in the room.
 
Of course you don't. Cancel trip. The recommendations are as bad as her answer? It does hurt. And that pain will not suddenly disappear in Hawaii? In fact. Will get worse. Attempting to replace her with someone new will also fail. It almost always does.

I know it's easy for a dumbass like me making recommendations from the cheapseats? But from these cheapseats? Appears that that door closed.
 
Go by yourself or with a friend of either sex....
When you're in Hawaii, rent a convertible, bring a camera, find some smoking hot model, tell her you want to take pictures of her for your next spread in Playboy magazine,
Take all kinds of awesome pictures, including a couple of her kissing you,
And send copies of those photos to your ex -- with the caption " Hangin' in Hawaii " this could have been you....
(And maybe your new lady friend becomes your Next !!!)

Have Fun in the 808 (that is Hawaii's area code...)
 
ord27 said:
guys
what would yall do
Dated a much younger girl for the past 7 years. She broke it off. Broke my heart. We had a Hawaii vacation in the works. She's says she will still go, and give the complete girlfriend experience. But there is NO chance of getting back together after we get back. She claims she still loves me, but wants to date guys her age.
What would yall do? Take her, or go alone?
I can't get my money back on plane fare, but if I don't take her, I'd save a ton of money by less spending while I'm there. But the money isn't that big of a deal to me.

Would you rather have one last fling with her...knowing it's the last.
Or begin the healing process now?
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Organise yourself a new vacation companion....male or female...friend or a new lady - whatever. Get the tickets changed so the new person has their name on the ticket (if you can do that)

Tell the soon-to-be-ex "Sure...see you at the airport". Then when you and the new person show up at the boarding lounge....the ex will feel like a real heel with nowhere to go, and possibly already have her luggage on the conveyor belt. Heck she might even try to board through the gate with you...until she is asked for her ticket. :D

Hey, get some revenge out the situation....being dumped is not a nice feeling. Enjoy Hawaii. :thumbsup:
 
Sorry for the crap she’s putting you through. I’m with everyone, leave her behind. It sucks I’m sure, it’s a giant kick right in the ole twig and berries but after 7 she’s breaks it off...... that’s a hard no!

Heck I’ll go with ya... you just ain’t getting the “extras”
:lol:

All seriousness though, go on the trip and Have fun with your brother! Find some good food, good drink and there must be some Fbbo member(s) there to visit too!
 
33 IMP said:
I'd start the hating, oops, i mean healing process immediately, and take ANYBODY else.
And i would bet large she's got somebody new in mind, if not already in her bed. I've never been dumped by a woman who wasnt banging my replacement first.
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It is called an "Exit Strategy" and she will use the trip to internally validate her decision and continue creating her new reality. You will also pay for her move-on therapy with your emotions, during her trip. She has given them back to you and now is your opportunity to reattach them. This is a boy-to-man choice for you. You know that you saw it coming! CUT HER LOOSE.

Post an ad on Face Book looking for a GFE for an all expense trip to Hawaii and you will be "intact" by the time you get back.
 
pretty hard giving advice to someone you don't know habits and personality!

personally, I don't take sand to the beach!
 
If the shoe was on the other foot, would she take you? I'm guessing the answer would probably be no considering her desire to date others.

Be happy, in whatever you decide.
 
ord27 said:
guys
what would yall do
Dated a much younger girl for the past 7 years. She broke it off. Broke my heart. We had a Hawaii vacation in the works. She's says she will still go, and give the complete girlfriend experience. But there is NO chance of getting back together after we get back. She claims she still loves me, but wants to date guys her age.
What would yall do? Take her, or go alone?
I can't get my money back on plane fare, but if I don't take her, I'd save a ton of money by less spending while I'm there. But the money isn't that big of a deal to me.

Would you rather have one last fling with her...knowing it's the last.
Or begin the healing process now?
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Sounds to me she's looking for a way back in if her other options fall short.
 
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