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dadsbee said:
I'd walk into a group of women and ask "who wants to go to Hawaii" before I'd take her with me.
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I would like to submit this post from dadsbee for the reply of the week award.
Thank you for your consideration.
 
She wants to see others guys? Dude, she ALREADY has!! MOVE ON!! Yes it hurts, ITS NOT YOU!! ITS HER!! Karma WILL hit her!! GO ALONE or find a new vaca pal. Rent a Harley & cruise the island!! GO HAVE FUN COWBOY!! ENJOY!!! (Been there, oh how nice the freedom to do as I damn well want!!)
Think about this, went Daytona FL with last gf, no sex(???), which turned into blessing from the big guy & my angels, she had STD!!! Real "good christian woman" as she said about herself!! Counting my blessing there!!
 
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At this point I wouldn't take her to dog show.
 
I’ve been in a similar situation, if you take her there is the potential of it becoming one long fight. Just go with a friend, male or female, have fun. Kind of like the idea of taking her mom, if she’s hot and available. Don’t be vindictive, future late night stress relief might be doable. Good luck.
 
leave her
don't you dare take her
it's a beautiful place. You need to enjoy with someone that you can have fun with, whether its a buddy or a new girlfriend.
if this was me i would take buddy , hang out at Duke's, go to the north shore, get some fishing in. Rent a car and cruise the Kamehameha stop in the local joints, get some shrimp at Mackie's. There are lots of places to see and things to do without that headache hanging around.
 
3sloppydogs said:
leave her
don't you dare take her
it's a beautiful place. You need to enjoy with someone that you can have fun with, whether its a buddy or a new girlfriend.
if this was me i would take buddy , hang out at Duke's, go to the north shore, get some fishing in. Rent a car and cruise the Kamehameha stop in the local joints, get some shrimp at Mackie's. There are lots of places to see and things to do without that headache hanging around.
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what he said
go with a buddy and enjoy everything on the island . they have mopars there to
 
steve from staten island said:
Really what did you expect? Did you think she'd commit to staying with you as you aged and she was so younger? You described her in another thread as a more or less party girl, the good times.
She had fun and you had fun but the reality is she grew tired of you, the age difference was too much and she told you as much.
She did you a favour, if she wants to break it off, no strings attached, no BS, than consider yourself a lucky man and move on
Maybe find yourself a woman closer to your own age who knows what she wants and is willing to commit and be honest
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I disagree Steve. My wife is over 12 years younger than me. We met the year she graduated college, she was 22 and I was 34. I just turned 50 and we couldn't be happier. Love is not an age.
 
steve from staten island said:
Really what did you expect? Did you think she'd commit to staying with you as you aged and she was so younger? You described her in another thread as a more or less party girl, the good times.
She had fun and you had fun but the reality is she grew tired of you, the age difference was too much and she told you as much.
She did you a favour, if she wants to break it off, no strings attached, no BS, than consider yourself a lucky man and move on
Maybe find yourself a woman closer to your own age who knows what she wants and is willing to commit and be honest
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yes, Steve. You are right
 
Ironbuilt said:
I disagree Steve. My wife is over 12 years younger than me. We met the year she graduated college, she was 22 and I was 34. I just turned 50 and we couldn't be happier. Love is not an age.
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12 years isn't that great a gap and your relationship with your wife and the situation the OP writes about is like comparing apples to oranges.
The whole thread posted is nonsense BS and I have little patience for it.
You and your wife have a loving relationship, which from what you've made public in the past and is built on trust and commitment.
 
A lot of us have been through romances/relationships that ended nicely or otherwise. How I remember the dating days. And many buddy’s going through the same. It is what it is. People male/female want to move on or get hitched. A gal, my 1st, broke my heart finally going back to her old boyfriend. That guy begged, cried, wrote her endless letters for the entire friggin year we dated. She wanted me to read them…and I said no way! I got a bit peeved saying WDH would you want ME to read them? Well, fast forward, she married the guy, had two kids and she divorced him. I considered myself fortunate it ended.

And as I came to find out, I broke a couple hearts too. Maybe you did too. That’s life as we all make decisions who we stay with. Worst thing to do IMO, is acknowledge the pain openly, especially with her. Nope, cut it off cold turkey. Nope, don’t take her along. And hey nope…don’t try the seek revenge by sending her pictures of you on vacation or with other gals. It’ll just play into her hands showing her you’re having a tough time getting over her and will mess with your head ‘thinking’ about her doing this stuff instead of enjoying your time in paradise.

Yeah – this **** is painful; you ain’t alone. Gotta move on and odds are you will find someone who you will love better than you did…or could love her…
 
ord27 said:
yes, Steve. You are right
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I didnt mean to knock you but I had reasons which I won't go into.
Im also not knocking your ex either but the word love in relationships have different meanings to different people
If you've done the right thing in life and are a good person which I assume you are than my opinion for what its worth is this.
You deserve to be happy and have somebody next to you that will always stand by you and be there for you not just in good times but all the time
Go have a great time on vacation . Best of luck
 
thanks for all of the replies guys, especially the more serious ones.
We are 27 years apart and yes, deep down, I knew the day was coming at some point.
My brother lives outside of Kona. We have 2, 2 tank dives booked, and a long day of sailing around the big island booked.
He has a Harley that I've borrowed several times in the past. I'm sure I will take a day or two and ride by myself.
I'm sure that trip alone will allow me the clarity to create the vision to move forward.
I own restaurants, it would be easy to crawl into my work and rebuild what Covid has taken. That is my nature. But that is also what helped ruin a long marriage and strained several other relationships.
Friends and family have not been as blunt. But I'm sure that they don't want to say what's on their minds, and are trying to be sensitive for me....for now. Perhaps that's why I came here.
Pathetic, probably.
helpful, yes.
I uninvited her this morning, and removed her from all of my social media and phone
thanks
Cheers
 
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