Just about every Dodge has converter drain back, but I have never seen one that would spill fluid out the top of the dipstick. It's got to be something with the vent. Even with the drain back the stick is way higher than the top of the transmission and no fluid should ever reach that high. My 06 CTD sits for weeks sometimes and while I let it idle in neutral to get everything flowing, it doesn't leak.
If the vent is plugged the fluid could become trapped in the tube.. You sure it's just not leaking at the tube where it goes into the transmission? I have been a transmission man for 30 years.... I have never heard of this.
What if you start it and run it in neutral instead of park?
OK another edit: The vent is in the bellhousing built into the pump, doubt if it has a problem. What is probably happening is the convertor drains back the fluid, it gets in the tube, idling in park it builds some pressure and burps it out the tube. If you start it in neutral, you shouldn't have that problem as the pump picks up the fluid and starts circulating it. In Park, the convertor doesn't charge so you got a lot of fluid that is staying in the pan .