I hope
she kicked
his ***...
I'm sure he deserved some of it/
if not all of it,
if he's an abuser
1st she should
get the **** out
Now, not tomorrow not later, Now
get the kids, the dog/pets (
they will get abused too), clothes,
funds from their bank, & open a new bank account even, in her name
then take one of the car or truck (
title too if need be) etc. etc. etc.
& leave, go anywhere else, no matter how hard it is
there are places & org's that will take her in,
we all pay for funded by our tax dollars,
if her family won't take her in
or
her friends don't/won't
far too often they stay in them/their stupid situations
& it goes really bad
I never understood
that thinking it gets physical & abusive &
you still want to stay, lay beside,
that ******
(
makes no sense to me)
they will get beat even worse, it will escalate,
cops will come more & more, expenses they can't afford
her being right or wrong
especially if the guy thinks they will fight back
or they aren't defenseless anymore
obviously, there's no love anymore or respect (
love is respect)
or that kind of violence wouldn't be happening
I hope for her sake she gets thru this, get away from him...
She could also contact the local court/LEO's
they can tell her what she needs to do
& she should get '
a court order'
or also known as a '
no contact order/restraining order'
make him stay away from her,
(
it's good for 12 months IIRC, may need to be legally dropped/stopped,
by the courts or continued/renewed, depending on the outcome/situations)
served to him by the local Sherrif/LEOs
they will physically remove him if it comes to that
he goes directly to jail if
he breaks the order no if & or butts
directly to jail, then he has the legal problems
not her
I saw this **** 1st hand with one of my younger adopted sisters
& an older sister, it gets ugly & doesn't stop, it escalates...
2 of my sisters went thru it, the other it stopped,
sort of
me & my stepdad, (
I took Bob with me so I wouldn't do something stupid)
we had a sit down with Paul (
her second husband), my older sister's husband
& he stopped (
physically), we told him to never lay a hand in anger
on her ever again, he actually did change (
some for a while),
if you get my drift...
He was still verbally abusive, eventually, I made him
collect his **** & leave...
She wasn't gonna do it on her own, but she was still going to complain
bitch & moan about it constantly & allow him to stay...
I directed her to get a court order/restraining order too...
She was still reluctant...
I wasn't having any of it anymore...
I was tired/fed up of being in the middle of her
relationship **** too...
you need tough love sometimes