The 2015 and newer PCM has to be replaced because they modify something internal to allow them to access aftermarket programming. The previous years do not require the internal modification. If all else fails, run a Big Stuff 3, FAST, Megasquirt, or one of the other stand-alone aftermarket PCMs. It's just easier if the stock PCM and modified stock harness are used.
You could always set it up on a stand, connect everything, and see if she'll start. If starts and runs, even after disconnecting the power, reconnecting, and trying again, then you don't need aftermarket tuning anyway.
I have only done these modern Hemis with all the factory security still connected in trucks. I have verified my truck won't run without the security module connected (WIN module I think it was calledcal my 2008).