Best of luck on recovery. I've been blessed with bph for 18yrs now.. I'm 50 so if that tells you any thing. Initially I saw a Dr who just prescribed meds, which helped very little, but caused more side effects. Got tired of run around and went to different Dr.
Second Dr was a little more old school and he explained before the advent of prostate meds, Drs would give a guy a prostate massage. I'm like ok do it, to which he said it might hurt. Well he started I thought my eyes were gonna pop out of my head. I'm not gonna lie it hurt, but 2 hrs later I'm peeing like I'm 10 yrs old. Dr said prostate was inflamed big time. Why he did not know, some guys are susceptible mainly if they sit a lot. eg: truck drivers, farmers, police, office workers to name a few.
So I go twice a year get a massage and all is good. Yeah its not fun, but it beats taking extra meds, just uncomfortable for you and doctor, just giving people options. Luckily my psa numbers are all normal, just have bph. More guys die from prostate cancer than women of breast. So get checked gentlemen. Hope this helps at least 1 person