Parents are the people who raise you. Period. I think the whole ancestry thing is over rated.
I can agree with your first assessment, while offering a "not so much" on the 2nd part.
Allow me to try to explain:
(Ed Story Time!)
In my own corner of the world here, I'm pretty much down to a brother and sister left from
the entire immediate family - a rather sizeable one in its' time, I might add.
I am my fathers' namesake and no doubt was closest to him when he was alive.
My sister started up on ancestry.com several years ago - she being the self-appointed historian
of the bunch (she has spent her life removing herself as much as she could from our upbringing
and heritage - guess their humble roots are embarassing to her).
She's always liked to passively rub her success at both money and "status" in my face, since I
chose to return to "roots" about 25 years ago (she's failed at that every time - but she still tries,
all the while telling me how much she loves me).
She granted me access to this ancestry.com thing recently, so I figured I'd take a look...
and mostly, all I saw was her years of work on her husbands' family tree and not so much on our
own.
Always trying to impress others, that's her....
She thought my checking into the site would impress me no end at her work; well, not so much...
Instead, it has only amplified the desire in me to want to know more about where I came from than
I already know - especially documentation and such in support of what I can remember.
You see, as I get closer to my own accelerated demise and most who have known me that are
still above dirt continue to either consciously or naturally fade away from me and I find myself alone
more and more each day, it's become a bit of unfinished business to complete my moms' and dads'
"stories" - and thanks to my sister, there's enough motivation to get done what she should have
been doing all along.
Will the results matter to much of anyone in the future? For most, probably not - but my goal since
this whole rapid degradation process began with me has always been "not to leave a mess",
which includes "don't leave anything unfinished".
God willing, I'll have the time to see this one last task through...
It matters to me, if to no one else.