I don't know if any particular kit is better than another as they all use the same or similar parts (compressors, condensers, driers, etc).
Classic auto air is the largest producer and is the only aftermarket system I have ever dealt with. The only upgrades I have done to them is a larger condenser for better low speed/idle cooling, but this was for extreme temperature areas. I'm sure the supplied condenser is fine for all but the Vegas/Phoenix area of the country. Another consideration is that they will probably still be in business in the future should you need parts.
As for RPM potential of the compressor, virtually any compressor has no problem at any RPM if it is OFF as it is nothing more than an idler pulley when it's not running. The Sanden compressors that are universally used by the OEM and in aftermarket kits will easily handle 6,000 RPM (compressor RPM, which is dependent on pulley ratios) when running. When OFF, the belt should disintegrate from excessive RPM before the compressor clutch bearing. But keep in mind that these are the lowest end, fixed displacement compressors made by the company. Not that there is anything at all wrong with them, as they are working flawlessly in literally hundreds of millions of vehicles, but even Sanden has piston compressors that will go to 9600 RPM, and scroll units that will go over 10,000+ RPM, while being variable displacement - Non of which should be of any importance to you unless you will be driving a convertible through Death Valley, in the middle of summer, and the ice melting in your drink is totally unacceptable!
I only ever deal with A/C modified/taken to the absurdity for other A/C psychos like myself, but for just staying cool, I'm sure you will be happy with the Classic Auto Air system and probably others.
No matter who you decide to go with, I would recommend the largest condenser they offer as there is no downside to the extra capacity (even if the condenser is larger than your radiator opening), but can be night and day difference in low speed/idle cooling. Also, insulation of the firewall from the cabin can be dramatic, as relying on a 1/32nd thick piece of metal to insulate you from the multi hundred degree temperatures on the other side just doesn't work no matter how good the A/C system is.
I hope any of this helps.