Here's the thing..........you are fixating on the relay, for which you cannot seem to find a replacement. Why not ACTUALLY troubleshoot the SYSTEM and figure it out? Then you know what is wrong.
First thing to do is figure out if the relay is engaging. You cannot trust the horn button, so where else can you access the horn button wire?
EASY at the steering column connector. Look on the page I posted 8-132 The button wire is H3-20BK. This means a no 20 gauge wire and it's BlacK Follow that off the page, and down to the next page at the STEERING COLUMN. There you will see it at the very bottom of the turn signal connector. Get in there with a probe and ground that wire and LISTEN. You should be able to hear the relay click.
Now........if it is NOT clicking, is it getting power? Back up at the fuse panel, you want the FEED wire, H1-16V which is a no 16 VIOLET. That goes down to "2" on the fuse panel Is that hot? Probe it and see
Go back and find the fuse chart. You have a clock? Does it work? Does the "key in buzzer" work? If so, that fuse is good and the relay has power.
Now, is horn power getting "out" of the relay? This is a little more difficult because the power comes out of the relay, which is hard to access, and goes through the bulkhead connector. Both those terminations are difficult, because you could be losing power RIGHT IN the bulkhead connector terminals.
One way to do this is to make a "rig." Find some light gauge wire, or else strip out some heavy gauge, and get a "strand" of wire. Pull the relay, put this small wire down in the correct terminal which is "3" at bottom right. Hook this to your meter or test lamp and activate the horn button wire. You should get power there. If you do, the problem is LIKELY in the bulkhead connector terminal