This may be unpopular, but it's what I know and have grown up w/.
Not everyone who serves/has served is a 'hero', and these blanket labels are bs. My neighbor is a 23 year old brat that 'hurt her back' doing something she won't share...she was an armorer and never left Pendleton...so I'm guessing it was something stupid, as she's pretty stupid. She's shared that her benefit is $1500/month, and I see her flinging her 3 kids around pretty easily. Hero?
Dad still has shrapnel in his cheek that sets off metal detectors. Never received a Purple Heart, doesn't care. One of his buddy's from high school jumped from a helicopter in a non-combat situation and broke his ankle...he not only got a PH, but a medical discharge. They haven't spoken since coming back.
He was drafted in 68...was a Huey mechanic in the 1st Cav, then voluntarily went back after returning to the states and not being able to get a job...and this was in KS...not 'hippie' territory. His second tour he spent as a door gunner.
After encouragement from my uncle who filed paperwork for benefits in 2010 due to the expansion of possible issues related to Agent Orange, Dad's been jumping through the hoops to see what kind of bene's are available. Unfort, that means psych evals, which is bringing a whole bunch of suppressed memories/thoughts back to light. Not a pleasurable experience for him or anyone around him.
Dad always told me that if the draft was reinstated, we were moving to Canada. Based on some of his stories, I can understand why. Would that have made me a draft dodger? I was raised in a household where things weren't so easily dismissed as black or white.
It was **** circumstances that America is still paying for emotionally and financially today.[/QUOTE
A Veteran - whether active duty, retired, national guard or reserve, is someone who, at one point in his life, wrote a blank check made payable to "The United States of America", for an amount of "up to and including my life."
That is honor, and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it.
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And that is my definition of a "Hero"