Any caregivers here, elderly parents, spouse?
I mean actual caregivers that is.
Dealing with social services, getting outside help, medicare, power of attorney, that sought of thing.
I did it....
Moved my ailing Mom to CA January 2010 and she made it an extra 8 years, lived in one of our 3 rentals right next door. She passed at the age of 90, Dec 17 2017.
Due to a broken ankle, Hospital essentially killed her.
Steve From Staten Island: it was difficult, but I did it. To this day I miss her, and furthermore I think I could have done more. But, She would never have made it in her RI home alone. It was a true challenge, I received no "State off CA" support for monies as a Care Giver...CA has too much Red Tape.
Last year, August 17-22 I flew to RI, all her Cousins and my family came to the ceremony, I spread her ashes...everyone said I did a "Good Job"
Yeah, I call
"BS" on
Joan Lunden's "A place for Mom", Ha Ha...rat infested nursing homes, neglected Elderly and all those places see is a Paycheck/Bank Account.
I would do it again, AND, I was still working F-22 Flight Test and the Air Force Flight Test Center, Edwards CA.
And yes, I was the actual Caregiver, My wife made every meal, Mom was Type II Diabetic, I checked her blood 2X daily, 0545Hrs and 1630 Hrs along with providing her insulin shots. Drove her to all Med appointments, she was legally Blind in one eye, Macular Degeneration and bad eyesight in the other.
I'll pat myself on the back and say: "My wife and I did good"
Heck, one weekend, HEMI-ITIS and his wonderful wife came to Pomona, NHRA drags, I had to leave early to get home to my Mom.
Yup, do a good Job SFSI....do it.