3sloppydogs
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I'm not always right, but I've never been wrong
Id rather go on than acknowledge a grudge against some bozo that done me wrong and moved on to the nextSome are capable of apologizing and some aren’t. There’s a couple people I’ve encountered in my life (a boss in particular) who to this day I deee-spize. He was an idiot and his disposition got worse as he climbed the ladder knowing which asses to plant his lips on. It was comical to watch, if ya put aside how pathetic it was. He would even try to emulate his current bosses’ mannerisms and accent. One was a guy from Boston…that was a trick he tried unsuccessfully, lol. The ****** would have a picture of his boss and him on his credenza…hmm and not one photo of his wife? (Longer-humorous and sad story here too.) Thankfully the **** wad didn’t have kids, at least then. It was evident he had some deeply rooted fears – a common trait IMO of people incapable of apologizing. Knowing that POS, and at one time being rather close friends, before he talked me into coming to his company, likely made it worse. Pathetic excuse for a human being.
And some say forgiving someone one may hate is healing? Lol, **** dat hey. I would never forgive that rancid asshole healing or otherwise...
Integrity is how you behave when no one is looking.
Ain't nothing more useless (or pathetic) than an unexplained Red X on a post. Just sayin'...Yep...well, you certainly would have issues with your integrity, anyways.
This hits at the core of what an apology should be the starting point of - namely, admitting there was an error
so that the process can begin of fixing it.
After all, the first step in repairing a problem is being able to admit there is a problem to begin with, eh?
Lookit, I'm as headstrong as anyone. Drives my wife nuts sometimes - but when confronted with substantive
evidence to dispute something I've said or done, I do acknowledge it and accept responsibility for my error -
and yes, that starts with an apology typically if one is warranted.
Yo dawg, my bad.Admitting fault when you messed up builds rapport and garners respect from others while absolving you of some guilt.
Stonewalling and refusing to own up to the mistake builds resentment and erodes trust for future interactions with people.
Don't say "My bad". (I hate that urban based phrase for many reasons) You can do better than that.
Acknowledging blame is only part of it. Showing some humility by apologizing shows that you are aware that a mistake was made and that you feel some shame for it and intend to do better.
Ok, I'm whipping this out again...sure when or if I was actually wrong
but not to some asshole, that deserved whatever I said
to begin with
some need to grow a pair
some need to lighten the **** up too
an apology is only as good as the person/attitude
from the specific circumstance & person doing it
Was sharing a personal example of the sort (IMO) having inability, or consider it a sign of weakness, to apologize. My apologies pard if my post appeared as if I haven’t moved on. It’s only when I have occasion to remember…that I haven’t. There’s a pun and a bit of humor in here somewhere.Id rather go on than acknowledge a grudge against some bozo that done me wrong and moved on to the next
rung on the ladder
Or maybe focus on my s code Mopar s
I'm sorry to hear this..Our Canadian Prime Minister will apologize for anything and everything that occurred to anyone since this country was discovered - and he likes to hand out big fat cheques to go along with it !!
I’m sorry.