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The acceptance of a declared gay or lesbian family member is not easy. Some strongly feel that they are deviants, perverts and freaks. Me? I used to feel that way but over time, I have changed. I do not think these people choose to feel that way any more than I choose to be attracted to women. It sounds strange but consider this....I hate beer but others just love it. I hate seafood, others love it. THey cannot understand why I hate that stuff, I cannot understand why they LOVE it. THey must feel the same attraction as I do, just not toward the opposite sex. Yeah, it is hard to imagine but this is what I have come to believe.
My older brother was openly gay but did not force his lifestyle on people. He lived his life, bothered nobody and was not an embarrassment to himself. He had "friends" at family gatherings but they never flaunted their feelings, they never showed any signs of affection.
My older brother was openly gay but did not force his lifestyle on people. He lived his life, bothered nobody and was not an embarrassment to himself. He had "friends" at family gatherings but they never flaunted their feelings, they never showed any signs of affection.