ddpsnake
Well-Known Member
first blow job you ask./
I ive been were you are and still am. Hope she is feeling better and I agree working one the hobby car when time allows is a great stress reduction.Tough times? Besides the every day stuff of births, deaths, and work, sometimes really bad **** happens. January 04, 2017 the phone rings. It’s the hospital. Wife has stage three cancer. She spent literally all of 2017 fighting it. The stress is unrelenting and unbelievable. Finances are hit HARD. It’s sounds crazy to say out loud, but those of you that have been there will understand: it’s easier to just die. Not better, just easier.
Turns out she is (so far) cancer free. It affected every part of our lives. Permanently. But that’s life. Everyone eventually goes through similar or worse stuff.
On the bright side, besides surviving, I mean...
I had our ‘70 Coronet Super Bee tribute car for 25 years. Never did much with it. When she was going through chemo I had to monitor her, but couldn’t just sit beside her 24/7. So I worked on the car. Got more done then I had in the previous 25 years. Also realized that at 59 I’m closer to the end of life then the beginning. Time to stop taking projects and finish what I have.
The photo is us in Mazatlan this spring. It was the happiest I’ve seen her in years.
If you’re ever in The Last Drop in Cerritos, Mazatlan, Mexico, that polar bear licence plate on the wall that you can see in the photo is from me. We go there a few times a year now.
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You bet. I sincerely hope that things work out for you. I joined this site just after she was diagnosed and started looking for info on my car. It really helped, both in working on my car and working on my wife.I ive been were you are and still am. Hope she is feeling better and I agree working one the hobby car when time allows is a great stress reduction.
There is hope for smaller guys. Keep the faith they are out there.First sight. 1992. Delivered pizza to her. Never asked why so many cars, guns, fish tanks, turtles, or cannons. Her tiny vagina and sex addiction didn't hurt either.
You both make a good looking couple and are what marriage is all about. Wishing you both continued good health and much happinessI'll play along - great stories, you guys.
I probably knew she was the one when she continued to date me - LOL. I figured how lucky am I to get a cute sweetheart like her? I was 22 and she was 19 when we met in college. We were both freshmen (I goofed off for 3 years before I ended up going to college). We're coming up on 31 years of marriage this December. Through it all, we have been through a serious bout of cancer for her ('92) and a hip replacement for me ('09). We were both home nurses for each other. We have a great 27 year old daughter as our crown achievement together. She's supportive with everything I do, and she doesn't harp on me for my dad-bod. She's gotten the short end of that deal, because she's kept herself in great shape. I try to be a good husband to her. Sometimes I fall a little short, but I'm my own worst critic. All in all we fit great together and always come to a mutually agreed upon decision on things. She's also been super supportive of me getting back into the car hobby after I went 25 years of having nothing old. She didn't know me in my previous car life, but she knew how much I love old cars. She enjoys car shows and was supportive and agreeable to me finagling my (our) way into the unlikely dream of owning a Hemi car when the opportunity unexpectedly dropped into our lives.
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She did give you that beautiful baby girl.....How is that little sweetheart? Walking?Mhhh
Take it or leave it !
She did wipe my *** after both my surgery s .
But I think the nurse would have to do it too so.....