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I don't want to go to work tomorrow.

In a strange twist of fate, I spoke with the pension benefits person today to finalize my application.
The issue of working in construction during retirement was on my mind, so I asked....
"If I moved to a Right to Work state, what are my limitations then?"
She said that if I am outside their jurisdiction, (Northern CA) there are NO restrictions.
With the possible move to Tennessee, I can build houses again with no worry. THIS is great news!
That's great!!
When I retired I was only 52, my brother, 7 years older had retired at 52 also. He started a home care business. You'd be surprised how many people can't even put kitchen cabinet hardware on. When I retired I became partners in a business that kept us busy 5 days a week. We started at 9, an hour for lunch and quit at 3. There were many times it was 40 hours a week plus, but I was looking to send time with my brother, it wasn't about the money. Install kitchen cabinets to changing light bulbs for people with money. Word got around, our client base was about 100 and with permission, they tell someone, and someone would tell someone, pretty soon we're gutting houses for total restore. We had the keys to dozens of homes and we came and went without question. I have mentioned many times about honesty, loyalty, trust and that's what a single woman with kids needs when something in her house breaks and she can't take off work, we delivered that plus we let the dog out to pee.

Money was flowing like sweet wine and I soon realized I was working way to hard. We met some really great people and life long friends. When my brother hit 65, he said he was done. This thing that started out as way for us to get together turned into a machine. So, the idea was given to a friend who lived at the lake and he started, cabin care. People would phone him and he would make sure everything at their lake house was ready for them when they got there for the weekend. Hot water heater was on, house cooled down, boat fueled and ready, everything in order down to the lawn and spiderwebs being taken care of. There are 50 thousand homes on that lake, many people have more money than God should allow. Houses with heliports and 10,000 square weekend get away places. You can imagine how that worked out for him!!

As for my brother and I, When we quit, there were some sad people. From single women, to the gal that does our local news on TV, Bob and his wife Hope, can't make that up, all had to find new help, in this world, that was almost impossible. So there you have it, a possible way for you to make a buck and have fun at the same time. It's easy in this country to become wealthy, if you really want too.

So, The best part, the gal whose bathroom we did years ago is my wife's best friend and still does our hair. Bob and Hope, whose light bulbs we replaced along with everything in their mansion, still is my brothers best friend and my brother told me he and Bob went out to lunch the other day, like they still do twice a month. Now, my brother still replaces his light bulbs before they leave for lunch, but now it's free, because that's what friends do!!!
 
God love ya brother. Damn, that's quite the load for a fella to carry - and as you know, I'm right there with you.
You know all the prayers and good vibes are coming off this ridge aimed at you this morning... :thumbsup:
I appreciate it sir, I know God doesn't give ya more than you can bear, but damn he sure made me struggle.:)
 
@Roger63: Angels on your shoulder & bloody strong self determination in your soul!! GOD has blessed you.
Do what you want & enjoy the little pleasures that YOU have. Cruise RT66 is a good relaxer, IMO.
Pop (passed in April) was a trucker too, local; he said a thousand times that those trucks & unload/load freight beat the hell out of ya. Spinal injury in 69 & again in 2000, last 1 forced him to retire @ 58, barely walk but he walked; retired for 22+ yrs before passing at 80.
 
@Roger63: Angels on your shoulder & bloody strong self determination in your soul!! GOD has blessed you.
Do what you want & enjoy the little pleasures that YOU have. Cruise RT66 is a good relaxer, IMO.
Pop (passed in April) was a trucker too, local; he said a thousand times that those trucks & unload/load freight beat the hell out of ya. Spinal injury in 69 & again in 2000, last 1 forced him to retire @ 58, barely walk but he walked; retired for 22+ yrs before passing at 80.
Thank you sir, I have learned to enjoy my home time now. The cars are therapy for me. A year ago I could work out in the shop about 3 hours every other day it would just wear me out. Now I can do about 5 hours a day for 4 days straight. Getting better every day.
 
Didn't know how, why or when it would come - but back in my early 30's I knew it would come because I'd often witnessed what they'd done to others - And I prepared from then on. I've never looked back.
You nailed it sir.
One of, if not the biggest reason I decided to start my own business.
 
Thank you sir, I have learned to enjoy my home time now. The cars are therapy for me. A year ago I could work out in the shop about 3 hours every other day it would just wear me out. Now I can do about 5 hours a day for 4 days straight. Getting better every day.
GREAT TO HEAR THAT!! That is your determination.
Dad couldn't work on the cars any more, but brother & me worked on his S10 or on my 72 Charger, he was ther in a chair "supervising" us, unfortunately, last 3 years he was unable to do that. He was present when the 360 in the 72 fired up for the 1st time. Mom & he had 67-68 318 Furys as cabs back 1969-75.
 
I had never really been sick in my life before Feburary 2020. I've had pneumonia a few times over the year's from the sometimes daily weather changes that comes with driving 700 miles a day. This time I got it in 24 hours and it put me in the hospital. Double pneumonia while going septic, I don't remember walking into the emergency room. While there they said that their was something in my right kidney and to get it checked out when I got back to Oklahoma. So I did, and it turned out to be cancer, what they didn't tell me was there was another tumor unrelated in my left lung in the main airway which limited the use to just 20% lung capacity. I got both taken care of fully checked out and I went back to work. My 1st clue that something else was wrong didn't come till mid July 2020. I had a little numbness in my left foot in my toes, I loaded some boats and took them to Florida and did fine. Then I loaded a big boat permitted and routed for California. The farther I went the worse it got and the pain was tremendous in my back. Stopped at a hospital they told me I had sciatica and gave me a couple shots and I felt better. But it wasn't, by the time I got to Colorado I couldn't walk without help. My wife met me in Reno and helped me deliver the boat and escorted back to Oklahoma. That was it for me, they found another tumor on T4 vertebrae that was crushing my spinal cord. They operated on me Aug 18th in a 8 hour surgery, when I woke up the doctor told me that he did all he could but I would never walk again as there were no measurable signals below my waist. I told him he was wrong as I was already lifting my feet off the bed. Stage 4 renal cell carcinoma is what I have, a death sentence. It took me 8 months to get to where I can walk with a cane. The surgeon won't clear me to get my DOT medical certification so I'm just retired and grateful that I'm still here.
God Bless you Brother. Your burden is heavy but our Lord will take that yolk from your shoulders simply for the asking. May the Good Lord look after you all of the many, many days you have in front of you and progressive healing by his hand to your heart. His strength is your strength. Have faith and stay strong.
 
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Thank y'all for your prayers and well wishes. My fortune is that I don't feel like I'm done, I was put on vacation for a reason and I want to go back to work. My wife and my surgeon disagree with me but it's just in me I've worked as long as I have real memory. From working the garden to pay for school clothes to being 100ft in the air tying in 69kv line. Yea I wish I could go to work tomorrow.
 
I started my own business at 14 detailing cars, and selling seeds door-to-door. Been working ever since. My original plan to retire this month got derailed about ten months back, when I acted too late to salvage my 401K and lost nearly half of that. Fixed that somewhat, but here I am, still working probably until ten days after I achieve room temperature. My job is in no way in danger of going away, thankfully. I actually have about six more years of continuous work coming up, if I choose to work that much longer. It's nice to have options, moving forward.

I just want to travel a bit, see some stuff with my wife, and relax before I'm too crippled up to do anything at all. Seen too many of my friends in my age group simply keel over and die, or get some horrible disease like ALS or dementia. That **** runs in my family. I'm a wee bit concerned.
 
Well last Wednesday at 3 PM I was going to break out the lawnmower and cut some grass at work when I get a call on the radio that raw sewage was coming from the floor drains in the locker rooms. So after 3 hours of trying to unclog the drains I had to call a rooter company to unclog the drains and ended up cleaning up **** until midnight! Love my job!

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So exactly one week to the day later,at 3 PM once again I am getting the lawnmower out again to go cut grass,and I get a call on the radio that there is sewage coming up from the floor drains in the locker rooms again! Atleast this time I called the rooter company without spending 3 hours getting covered in **** trying to unclog it myself! I still had to clean up **** until 8 PM though! I have 14 months until I am eligible to retire, if they don't change my retirement date again! And if this keeps happening! I am retiring! I was supposed to be retired 5 years ago! So I am hoping that the day will come when I don't have to go to work anymore! I want to be like that lazy Richard Cranium guy!

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So exactly one week to the day later,at 3 PM once again I am getting the lawnmower out again to go cut grass,and I get a call on the radio that there is sewage coming up from the floor drains in the locker rooms again! Atleast this time I called the rooter company without spending 3 hours getting covered in **** trying to unclog it myself! I still had to clean up **** until 8 PM though! I have 14 months until I am eligible to retire, if they don't change my retirement date again! And if this keeps happening! I am retiring! I was supposed to be retired 5 years ago! So I am hoping that the day will come when I don't have to go to work anymore! I want to be like that lazy Richard Cranium guy!

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I'm not usually one to refuse to do work that is slightly outside of my usual duties.
THIS doesn't look like your line of work.
You are a Correctional Officer, right? Not a plumber, correct? Why would these ******** think that you are the one to be burdened with this stuff?

AS a Carpenter, I am used to doing cleanup of my own work areas. Sometimes I have to remove plumbing, HVAC or electrical stuff to replace or alter the framing around it. I'd never be asked to grab a shovel and dig a ditch. I'd never get sent to pour concrete. I'm not the one to grab a brush and paint the trim either.
Those are all respectable jobs but they are not what I do.
 
So exactly one week to the day later,at 3 PM once again I am getting the lawnmower out again to go cut grass,and I get a call on the radio that there is sewage coming up from the floor drains in the locker rooms again! Atleast this time I called the rooter company without spending 3 hours getting covered in **** trying to unclog it myself! I still had to clean up **** until 8 PM though! I have 14 months until I am eligible to retire, if they don't change my retirement date again! And if this keeps happening! I am retiring! I was supposed to be retired 5 years ago! So I am hoping that the day will come when I don't have to go to work anymore! I want to be like that lazy Richard Cranium guy!

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So exactly one week to the day later,at 3 PM once again I am getting the lawnmower out again to go cut grass,and I get a call on the radio that there is sewage coming up from the floor drains in the locker rooms again! Atleast this time I called the rooter company without spending 3 hours getting covered in **** trying to unclog it myself! I still had to clean up **** until 8 PM though! I have 14 months until I am eligible to retire, if they don't change my retirement date again! And if this keeps happening! I am retiring! I was supposed to be retired 5 years ago! So I am hoping that the day will come when I don't have to go to work anymore! I want to be like that lazy Richard Cranium guy!

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How does whomever tell you "no you're not retiring"? If it's a pension or union job and you put in your time don't you tell them your date and walk out the door on that date? I wasn't on a pension or in a union - just a gun for hire. When my mind said I was done - I just walked out the door and spoke to them later and said BTW I'm done. Goodbye. A corporate job. No one owned me even tho they liked to think they did via my paycheck. I did my job made them millions in sales, They paid me and when I decided I was done I just left. I despise corporate America for all their treatment and disloyalty to hard workers over the decades since the early 80's when everything began to change. I felt I owed them nothing and when done I was done. Nothing more to say....
 
The average life expectancy of Americans fell precipitously in 2020 and 2021, the sharpest two-year decline in nearly 100 years as per NYT....Life expectancy females 79.3 males 73.5
Retirement age is 67. life expectancy is 78. work for 50 years to maybe enjoy about 11? I took my SSI at 63.
 
A guy I know at work. Took his SSI at 62 he did the staying under the amount for 3 years then it gets lifted up after 65. We did the math on his numbers and he would have to live 10 years to get 75yo to start losing money because he went at 62. Like he said I don't know if I will make 75, he is 70 now, so we will see.
 
the math, age 62 to 67 not collecting SSI.
EX.25.000 per year income = $125.000 how many years in increase benefits at 67 years to break even is about 8 to 9 years. Age in the plus 75 to 76. Always remember if you get an illness requiring nursing home, they take your SSI.
 
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