Well it has been a month now and my wife is  doing great, turns out that the tumors in her matrix  were benign, except for the sudden menopause is all good now, she have both hot and cold flashes, last Saturday she wants to turn on the air conditioner because she  was hot ( the  temperature outside  was 9°c  48°f to you Celsius impaired ) but she takes this with humor, I keep telling her that her thermostat is broken, and she laugh every time, minor adjustments in her life but she is moving on.
For me this all has been  ...  well kinda difficult,  but that's it, since her surgery I decide to sleep in another bedroom so my moves in bed do not disturb her or hurt her in any other way, besides that I multiply myself by ten doing all the things she usually do, and this means go to bed until she falls asleep, and wake up earlier, making breakfast, helping her to take a shower,  go to work prepare dinner make shure she was comfortable, this situation made a stronger bond between us and she is doing great.
I know I take my time out but believe me I read all your posts and I have no words to say  thank you for your good wishes guys.