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I had the opposite experience, but a similar result. I did the opposite of what my parents advised me, and it worked. My parents came of age during the Depression, and were kids of self employed parents. They had it tough. Their advice was to get good enough grades to become a doctor, and if that didn't happen, I needed to get a low paying, but secure, public sector job with a pension. My dad followed this path at Penn State, and it served him well. He lived sparsely his entire career, but retired with more income than he had during his working years.Its interesting how a parent can influence those things, in some cases its not the parent giving good advice tho. My mom was pretty much useless with financial planning, and my father worked hard but was always looking for the big payday from either gambling or the lottery. He even gave up a cabinet shop business that seemed to be sustaining if not outright successful, in search of a big payday. I often think what if he kept it and it became an & Son biz.
I never really learned financial planning from them as a result, I learned what not to do.
That path wasn't in my wiring. I spent half my career self employed, and the other half on a climb up a corporate ladder that eventually crashed and burned. What I did learn from my parents was to live frugally, and save like crazy. The investment risk I took would have made them melt down, but it got me to the finish line.
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