Just to give you a comparison.... Currently I have a 512 Stroker. Big inch strokers eat up a lot of gear, a lot of stall, and a lot of duration. Car has 3.91's, 3500 stall, a 289/292 cam (248/252@.50) and is 632HP/696TQ. That being said, the car would probably like 4.10's a bit better. At dyno, the torque peak RPM was around 4000, and HP Peak around 5400. Car has a choppy idle (idles around 950RPM)
In your scenario, you have a motor that isn't going to eat up all that duration very well. It's going to struggle in the lower RPM's and the 3.23's will make it even worse. Being you have an auto, you can't substitute RPM with your feet. But on the flip-side, if you had a stick you'd be having a 40lb flywheel drag down your RPM'S when hitting the pedal anyways. Bottom line, is with your package you'd want a cam with the max HP/TQ hitting in the lower RPM's. You're not a drag racer, but a 308 cam would be much more suited for someone that is using their max HP/TQ a lot higher up in RPM, like at the drag strip. Basically, If all your power is sitting in the high RPM's, it's not going to be a lot of fun driving it on the street, because your low end and throttle response is going to really suffer. You'd be pretty surprised how just going to 3.55's will improve your get up.