Mike67
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My eldest daughter that is in AFJROTC Cadet Leadership Camp shipped out Monday for her 2nd year much to her displeasure... Initially...
We got a call today that she was hurt, evidently yesterday they were on their 2 mile run and she rolled her ankle in a hole. She sucked it up and didn't say anything & completed the run and the rest of the day.
They start PT at 430 every morning and she was able to suck it up and no one noticed... Afterwards they started their run & was trying to make up time as she was lagging near the rear, ( shes a natural runner and is always in the top 5) when a friend saw her crying and reported her to the CTO who made her go to the medic.
They iced it and put a brace on and tried to see if she could make it and finally determined she could not continue despite her protest. I went downtown to pick her up and as soon as she saw me I could see her tearing up, not wanting her to break down in front of her Lt. Col, & Sgts I tried to say something funny not related to her injury to get her mind off of it.
I have never seen her so diappointed and heartbroken which killed me. She did not want to talk at all, which hurt me terribly. She came around this evening and vented to me, but my words of comfort were of little value at this point...She has come to the realization that she will never make "Endevour" (4th yr leadership cadet).
The daddy in me wants to coddle her and baby her, then there is the part that wants to explain that some things are just not meant to be regardless of effort.
We had a long talk before she left and her lack of enthusiasm for this year was due to all of the yelling and screaming the CTOs do, I told her it was 5 days and to go take something positive from it all that she could apply to her new role/rank at school next year...she agreed and bought in and was actually having a good experience.... I hope I can keep her motivation up as she already stated now she does not want to go the next 2 yrs because she will not make the highest rank....
Any words of wisdom???? By the way she is ok just has a bad sprain, has to keep weight off for the next 3 days...
We got a call today that she was hurt, evidently yesterday they were on their 2 mile run and she rolled her ankle in a hole. She sucked it up and didn't say anything & completed the run and the rest of the day.
They start PT at 430 every morning and she was able to suck it up and no one noticed... Afterwards they started their run & was trying to make up time as she was lagging near the rear, ( shes a natural runner and is always in the top 5) when a friend saw her crying and reported her to the CTO who made her go to the medic.
They iced it and put a brace on and tried to see if she could make it and finally determined she could not continue despite her protest. I went downtown to pick her up and as soon as she saw me I could see her tearing up, not wanting her to break down in front of her Lt. Col, & Sgts I tried to say something funny not related to her injury to get her mind off of it.
I have never seen her so diappointed and heartbroken which killed me. She did not want to talk at all, which hurt me terribly. She came around this evening and vented to me, but my words of comfort were of little value at this point...She has come to the realization that she will never make "Endevour" (4th yr leadership cadet).
The daddy in me wants to coddle her and baby her, then there is the part that wants to explain that some things are just not meant to be regardless of effort.
We had a long talk before she left and her lack of enthusiasm for this year was due to all of the yelling and screaming the CTOs do, I told her it was 5 days and to go take something positive from it all that she could apply to her new role/rank at school next year...she agreed and bought in and was actually having a good experience.... I hope I can keep her motivation up as she already stated now she does not want to go the next 2 yrs because she will not make the highest rank....
Any words of wisdom???? By the way she is ok just has a bad sprain, has to keep weight off for the next 3 days...
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