My first cpu was a used set of Encyclopedia Britannica.... I think there were 11 volumes...
I often think back on my childhood and try to figure out sone of the things that made me who I am today.
First we were pretty poor looking back even when mom and dad were married. He was a Tx Highway Patrol and in the early 70s I think he was making like $12k a year, all cops are underpaid...bit agyer they divorced living with mom and my sister I found out what poor really was...seemed like we moved every six months or so...that was tough...made me self reliant and made me make a promise to myself that I would never live like that and I would never bring kids into a situation like that.
Started working when I was 12 helping roof, mow yards clean gutters ect just to buy a new bike so I would be tessed for riding a 2nd hand bike that was 20 yrs old... Kept working moved out and rented a room at 16 ro get away from mom and the self inflicted pity party thay blames everyone else, including me, for her lifes bad decisions...I do love her I just cant be around her...
As I got older I worked my *** off, made a lot of money for a hs dropout ( GED) worked 80-100 hrs a week ...made more than mpst of the journeymen in the company...problem was no one ever taught me about savings, retirement ect...tittie bars, booze, new cars, ski boat were my vices that consumed any gains I made. I guess I was making up for all the things I missed out on , lost or what I felt I should have had....
It wasnt until my late 20s did I start to figure things out ...got married @ 31, first kid @ 32 2nd 4 yrs later....quit the tittie bars and booze, bought my house a while back , recently bought wife a new car, Ive been driving used, sold the boat a long time ago, everything for the family. Built her a Mustang, saving for kids college trying to pay the house off early and finally starting to build my car...have some money in the bank, buily a retirement and am a Facility Director for 2 hospitals...
That all being said I think we are somewhat a victim of our own sucess...we always want more for our kids than what we had...the problem is that we ( society) didnt make them earn things like most did. Not saying my expeirence is a typical for a GenXer ( born in 69) but I think we have spoiled our kids as we prospered. Ive worked very hard trying to instill patriotism, a work ethic and accountability for ones self.
It seems the younger GenXers have followd suit and maybe were even more laxed instilling some of those values and we end up with the millenials.
As a stereotype ( which is probability in my eyes but there are exceptions) millenials are a very spoiled, entitled & clueless sort...again there are exceptions and they are a product of their environment. When a kid is not required to memorize a multiplication table, take spelling test, create research papers/book reports of their own opinions, deductions based on a written text its hard to expect them to know it.
We were required to memorized presidents, the bill of rights, multiplcation tables, spelling words, ten commandments, pledge of allegiance, states and capitols just to name a few...that is not required anymore unfortunately.
To those that have broken from that stereotype I say congratulations, you have a lot to be proud of and you are the future that we hope become the majority.
I am convinced smart phones will be the demise of our society by making us dumb. It removes the curiosity, free thought, inhibits the development of common sense and can plant seeds of false narratives, re-written history and/or celebrates atrocities by giving a sense of belonging/community all without being questioned...
I pray for our future....
Sorry for novel....but I have 2 wonderdul kids one 16 ( who has some preconcieved notions due to the web) and a 12 yo who is self conscious of the time she spends on electronics...I worry about qhete they get their info from daily as not to turn into a 21st century apathetic social media zombie...