I have to agree with everyone here, you didn't crack the head tightening a header with a box wrench unless you were using a 4 foot box wrench with tapered bolts, lol..
The builder should minimum cover remanning a new head, but again judging by what that head looks like, have them both redone by someone else... Head should have been maggnefluxxed (not sure how to spell that), that crack was probably in view with out mag powder BUT with a decent machine shop they would have picked that up FAST and threw that head away, instead of putting any time into it..
With heads that are easy to find like these and most chevy heads, I wont fix anything, just get another one, chevys like to break from the triangle water port to the bolt and you can press in a sleeve pretty easily and a lot of guys do that, but I toss them, the sleeves are $9 and a good core is $30.
ANYWAY, sorry about your issues, good luck getting it resolved, my best advice would be to pull both heads, take them all apart, have them cleaned and checked for cracks and runout on the uncracked head. If the good head checks good, reassemble it and find another core for the other one, have it done by someone else. Sad part is you are going to be out the gaskets, time and labor. You are not out the extra core because you needed one from jump street, that head should have been tossed, the company that built it should in the minimum refund what they charged you to do that head...
Good luck..