I hear you on the countless hours. Been there, done that. I have been at the receiving end of not doing a search posse. lol That's why I mentioned the part about not knowing what a part was called. Because if you don't know what a part or piece is called, hard to do a search for it. lol
Yea all the pictures are different but you look at lots and make the choice of what you can live with. Have you checked out DodgeCharger.com
lots of pictures there too. Same as here. Lots of knowledge.
The tire iron is in the same spot as the 69/70's. So a picture of the tire iron will be in the same location. It goes through that little bracket that's welded to the trunk extension that holds the hold down spring right? The other end sits in the bracket that holds the base of the jack.
Try googling 69 Dodge Charger jack hold down. Always seems to be more pictures of the 69 version