First off, your selling parts to other members here correct? So your making some money off of the FBBO forum. Do the right thing which in this case would be send the administrator 40 dollars and support the forum as a Gold member. The other fact is this and again please be clear when you sold this guy the glove box door with the hinge plus shipping which is determined by you did you give him a discount for not sending the door itself or did you take it upon yourself to not send it regardless of what he said. Because if he paid in full for the item as a whole, door and hinge, you owe him the door, and you should pay the shipping. If he received a discount because he did not take the door and the shipping was only for the hinge, you owe him nothing.......So what is it? Ive bought items from members here and never had a issue. Agreed upon a price and told them let me know the shipping cost. When they replied can or i want to do family and friends and avoid paying Pay pal costs, i told them no. I did tell them simply add on the amount you have to pay, pay pal and i will include the extra. If they didn't i figured it out and often sent a few dollars extra to make sure i covered the cost. I work very hard physically for my money and I'm no kid but i dont nickel and dime people or try and save a few pennies on there back. Neither should anyone else. Period.