Our holiday routine has changed in the past couple years. My MIL passed away 2 years ago, and we always spent Christmas Eve at her house. The kids loved it, and the food and company was good. Christmas is spent at my Moms house, and I cook a prime rib, football and left/right/center was always played after dinner. This year and from now on will be a tough one on the holidays with Nellas passing away. My Mom is not doing well with that, and my wife is still completely devastated. Nella loved Christmas, now with her gone, I just don’t know how we’re going to get through the holidays. I’m going to put ketchup on my Turkey this year in memory of her, she hated gravy, but loved ketchup, even on her Turkey. We’re just going to do our best to get through this year.