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Honey do's

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Ok i think if us guys get a list of honey do's that need to get done then we should give the wives one.
Example wash and wax my car maybe oil change etc what do you guys think
 
Ok i think if us guys get a list of honey do's that need to get done then we should give the wives one.
Example wash and wax my car maybe oil change etc what do you guys think
I'd think I'd like to have dinner tonight! And maybe some desert later, if ya know what I mean! :rolleyes:
 
I remember my mother having me do chores and having a list of things for me to do when I was a child. Why would I marry someone and transfer that relationship to my wife unless I wanted to remain a child?
 
In the book of The Alphabet of Ben Sira, Lilith was Adam's first wife, and was made an equal of Adam. In doing so, they fought over who was to be on top during intercourse. Because Adam didn't yield, she got mad, cursed God, sprouted wings, turning into a demon, and flew away.

Moral of the story, don't make things equal in a marriage when it comes to authority. It leads to conflict. There needs to give and take. Think of it like dancing. If you both lead with the same foot, you step on toes, and get stepped on. If one person takes the lead, and the other one follows, it becomes poetry in motion.
 
Yeah - I'm not that desperate to lose weight and sleep on the couch.... kind of like it the way I have it now...... let me know how it works out for you......
 
In the book of The Alphabet of Ben Sira, Lilith was Adam's first wife, and was made an equal of Adam. In doing so, they fought over who was to be on top during intercourse. Because Adam didn't yield, she got mad, cursed God, sprouted wings, turning into a demon, and flew away.

Moral of the story, don't make things equal in a marriage when it comes to authority. It leads to conflict. There needs to give and take. Think of it like dancing. If you both lead with the same foot, you step on toes, and get stepped on. If one person takes the lead, and the other one follows, it becomes poetry in motion.
Only problem with that story is I don't mind women being on top!
 
I can see him vacuuming , cooking, changing sheets and doing laundry. All that stuff and more is done by magic.
 
Just checked another item off my 'honey-do' list. Wife has been complaining about the WiFi dropping out in the lounge. So I am in the middle of setting up a WiFi Extender...sweating like a bastard - the humidity here is unbelievable. Still....beats being at work. :lol:

Picture for those who care...still have to transfer my network switch, printers and laptop etc...
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This is only temporary as I am renovating my office area, and need to demolish a ceiling and walls. Can't keep an eye on you guys with plaster and crap falling on me all the time. :D
 
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I can see him vacuuming , cooking, changing sheets and doing laundry. All that stuff and more is done by magic.
If you want it done right there are things you just simply have to do yourself.
No honey do list here and never will be. She knows quite well why she is here and domestic chorse is not one of them.
 
I put the Christmas tree away finally! Every day i took a few things off ! Her parents were here the other day and they were un happy about it being up still!
I patched a hole in the wall the other month like sep I think , I sanded it down today also ! Maybe next month I'll paint it!
What I'm getting at is it will all get done eventually,but if she really wants it done she knows we're the tools are!
Sadly I think she figured out my sceem she won't do anything ether! Now if it's really a big deal we negotiate ! She wants hot water in the shower I want a bj! Deal?
Try my method out it works but there's a very fine line and be prepared for a fight and possibly becoming single! You got to have something she wants/needs for her not to leave so if your not gifted down stares don't try this unless your ready for singles life again!
 
I put the Christmas tree away finally! Every day i took a few things off ! Her parents were here the other day and they were un happy about it being up still!
I patched a hole in the wall the other month like sep I think , I sanded it down today also ! Maybe next month I'll paint it!
What I'm getting at is it will all get done eventually,but if she really wants it done she knows we're the tools are!
Sadly I think she figured out my sceem she won't do anything ether! Now if it's really a big deal we negotiate ! She wants hot water in the shower I want a bj! Deal?
Try my method out it works but there's a very fine line and be prepared for a fight and possibly becoming single! You got to have something she wants/needs for her not to leave so if your not gifted down stares don't try this unless your ready for singles life again!
So whats the problem other than if she leaves she can take 50% of everything.
 
Only if you got it when you are together or you have documents stating you Solly paid for everything! I keep a tight watch/records today s day and age you can't trust anyone ! Mine seems to want to stay for some reason
 
Just checked another item off my 'honey-do' list. Wife has been complaining about the WiFi dropping out in the lounge. So I am in the middle of setting up a WiFi Extender...sweating like a bastard - the humidity here is unbelievable. Still....beats being at work. :lol:

Picture for those who care...still have to transfer my network switch, printers and laptop etc...
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This is only temporary as I am renovating my office area, and need to demolish a ceiling and walls. Can't keep an eye on you guys with plaster and crap falling on me all the time. :D

Oh yeah, checking things off the list...

My lady friend wanted a squirrel guard for her bird feeder. Took an old aluminum sign and made one up. Most are bolted ridged to the post. I took it one step further and made it swivel. Got a nice meal out of the deal :)
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Oh yeah, checking things off the list...

My lady friend wanted a squirrel guard for her bird feeder. Took an old aluminum sign and made one up. Most are bolted ridged to the post. I took it one step further and made it swivel. Got a nice meal out of the deal :)
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They'll figure it out, squirrels are clever little bastards
 
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