X7 on Rage Extreme. I liked Rage Gold ok, but Extreme is a bit thinner and easier to apply. Both harden very hard, and is ok to sand. Another friend likes the featherlight, but I haven't tried it...supposedly sands much easier, but frankly, I want my end product to be pretty hard (like metal, right?). I do most of my body work after it sets up and gets too hard (like a Sur-form plane/board), and do final touches with Mirka paper and sanding boards.
Totally agree with 747 and Propwash, if you're putting on more than 1/8" (ideally less than 1/16" thick), your metalwork isn't done yet. I watched a guy do body work for weeks, and I learned a few tricks on metal shrinking, using a stud-welder/dent puller, using two people for hammer and off-dolly work, and it's really possible to get metal pretty flat.
Good idea to clean metal and epoxy prime first, then do the bodywork later. Keeps the metal underneath pristine, and the filler will stick very well to roughed up primer.