I am tired......

[moparcurt]

Living like a ground hog....same old, same old......been a year and half for a relationship......longer than that for friends locally......due to past relationship!!! In a rut......no idea what to do or how to change it? Job keeps a roof over my head, food in my belly...with benefits, so I made the mistake of leaving that type of job once...…..ain't doing that again....no fuckin way!!!! I don't know.....in a funk...a rut....a crossroads...….no fuckin clue!!!!

Life can really suck at times!

 

[Kern Dog]

I hear you. I sometimes figure that I worry/think too much.
I don't know your age but for some Men, as you cross 50, you start thinking more about health and mortality. That **** REALLY sucks ***.
Some say...."Life is short...." No it isn't. Take a **** job or marry the wrong woman and it will seem like life drags on and on and on...
I have no tolerance for bad jobs, crappy vehicles, poor relationships. I don't understand people that do!

 

[Gone]

Damn, you sound suicidal.

 

[moparcurt]

47 turning 48 in December......but yeah, agree with ya 100%!!!!!

 

[GetX'd]

Hey Curt - life can get to us sometimes. Happens to all of us from time to time. I’ve been there in a serious way before. Hate to see a Mopar brother or anyone for that matter going thru a tough time. There’s support out there if you look for it. PM me sometime - maybe we can catch up and talk turkey. Like I said there’s people that care out there....

 

[Gone]

47 turning 48 in December......but yeah, agree with ya 100%!!!!!

Well, it doesn't get any easier. 50 and onward it starts getting to be more problematic. So, buck up now!

 

[moparcurt]

Damn, you sound suicidal.

Nah! Got a 19 year old daughter who I totally adore and could not leave with that **** on her shoulders...….like I said, in a funk, need a change...…..just one of those days, weeks, months or years??? LOL!!!

But THANK YOU!!!! I do really appreciate the concern, even though we may be far apart! MOPAR brothers/sisters helping one another! Gotta love that...no matter your age or where ya live!

 

[Gone]

Nah! Got a 19 year old daughter who I totally adore and could not leave with that **** on her shoulders...….like I said, in a funk, need a change...…..just one of those days, weeks, months or years??? LOL!!!

But THANK YOU!!!! I do really appreciate the concern, even though we may be far apart! MOPAR brothers/sisters helping one another! Gotta love that...no matter your age or where ya live!

OK, good to know. Personally, I would not wear my heart out on my sleeve on a website. I would talk with close friends and family, but that's just me.

 

[moparcurt]

THANK YOU! No worries there......chatting with family and friends tonight......just useless rambling...I don't know.....sometimes my mouth engages before my brain in is gear!!! LOL!!!

OK, good to know. Personally, I would not wear my heart out on my sleeve on a website. I would talk with close friends and family, but that's just me.

 

[tak419]

Living like a ground hog....same old, same old......been a year and half for a relationship......longer than that for friends locally......due to past relationship!!! In a rut......no idea what to do or how to change it? Job keeps a roof over my head, food in my belly...with benefits, so I made the mistake of leaving that type of job once...…..ain't doing that again....no fuckin way!!!! I don't know.....in a funk...a rut....a crossroads...….no fuckin clue!!!!

Life can really suck at times!

You think it sucks and I know you've heard this before but it could be worse. My sister is battling ovarian cancer for the second time in two yrs. Third time at chemo cause number 2 wasn't working. I was eating at Chili's Monday with her, she has blood work on Monday so she can have chemo tuesday. She got online and checked her results and she got a dead stare and says well that sucks. Her cancer count went from 10,000 a week ago to 17,000. Chemo isn't working. We all know what that means. You have your whole life ahead of you so stop worry about stupid ****. Can you imagine constantly knowing your days are number and all the things you want to do or didn't do ? You're at the ripe old age of "it's gonna suck to find a relationship" lol. Lets admit it, we live in a world of online hook up dating. But like you said, you have a roof over your head, a job and can eat so when it comes to the dating world you're way ahead of most single guys still living with mom lol. Life is only as bad as you want it to be. You'll be fine Curt.

 

[Aarons Air]

Got Mopar ?

 

[Officer Higgins]

Not making lite of the situation, but buy yourself a Chevy... Then you'll really know how life sucks.

 

[JB400]

Go to church and have a great time. Just being around real people will do wonders for you.

 

[rlem1977]

I feel for ya Curt. Life will throw curve balls. Lost my wife 2 years ago; developed a heart issue this past November; then my mom passed on in March. For me, my usual coping methods have been challenged and overcome at times. I did something I thought I would never do...found a counselor. None of these folks provide answers, but it gives someone to just talk to. Its helped a lot. I'd rather vent to her than to my kids or friends. Hang in there.

 

[451Mopar]

I hear you. Easy to get in the rut. Quit my job of 10+ years this January, and haven't found anything yet, but need to get back in the rat race soon before going broke. I was just on Linkedin. First time I ever got on there, maybe I will get some interest?

 

[67belvedere/225]

get yourself a therapist, nothing like venting and have somebody listen to you wont judge you
you feel great after

 

[Richard Cranium]

Sometimes a song can cheer you up.





Not sure if this one will though.

 

[Dennis H]

I'm tired, I think I'll go home now...Forest Gump...Road to Trona.

 

[Bladecutter]

I was happy, the cancer wasn't ******* my mood. Then June 2017, the guy I rent from(known 25 years)takes up with this BITCH(we already hated each other) & moves her in. Asshole has dominated the entire property with her bullshit female leg lifting & thoroughly driven a wedge in between friend(?) & myself. Limited income, desperately trying to find a new living situation, who the **** knows what I'll do about a shop. Hard to get outside looking in.
I've been abstinent 30+ years & content without a woman in my way......being manipulated by someone else's is horseshit.....25 year friendship is down the toilet over this. Like I've always said, I have a friend, friend gets 'married', I no longer have the friend. As a rule women can't stand their 'prisoner' having single friends.

 

[dryheat]

"When you change the way you look at things ... the things you look at change" ... change does not need to be dramatic to have an meaningful effect.

The AA Big Book taught me that if nothing changes then nothing changes ... so change something.

Drive a different route home once a week ... stop once in a while and get an ice cream cone just for yourself ... shave your beard or grow a beard ... start wearing Hawaiian shirts ... etc etc etc