I watched my brother go through a divorce 5 years ago. He had got cheating 7 years before that, but counseling had supposedly fixed that. He suddenly noticed that they were 6 months behind in all bills, (he worked, she was secretary). A checkup with the bank also revealed that the children's college savings had been drained as well as their personal savings.
When questioned about where the missing $20k was her only answer was "he was a cheating ****."
A divorce happened. first thing she did was **** all his friends, second thing she did was threaten to kill him and his new girlfriend. (Cops did nothing but arrest my brother for defending himself while she attacked him with a pair of scissors)
Third thing she did was screw all the people he hated, tweekers, village idiots, drug dealers, superiors at work, underlings at work. She finally got fired from a good job because she got caught screwing the fed-ex man while she was at work. (I guess he was delivering an important package.) LOL We live in a close community, my brother handled it well, but I can't help but think that her actions got back to her children, which my brother has full custody of.
His advice "Never underestimate just how far a woman will go when she goes off the deep end!"
and "You can take a girl out of the trailer park, but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl." Both very true.
To this day we don't know what in the hell she did with all the $$$$$.