Being a veteran, I'll say this - and it's *my* opinion so that's all that matters. Nobody has to agree or argue, it's not going to change my mind. If you're offended, don't get your panties in a bunch, just understand that it's my own personal feelings - that's my disclaimer.
I enlisted right out of high school. My desire was to serve my country, and I gave it enough thought that I planned to do a full 20 years and retire. Unfortunately, it didn't work out that way, but I still served my country proudly. I love my country and support my military.
That said, it bugs the living **** out of me when some young punk with all his limbs and a nice pair of sneakers expects to get a discount at any establishment simply because he's a veteran or active duty. Key word: expects
Do I feel that our veterans (not me, but real veterans) deserve something? hell yeah, because I am proud of them. But I didn't do any combat tours, and remained stateside, so I don't look for discounts or free stuff. I didn't enlist so that some place like Home Depot or Burger King can give me a "military discount". When people trash a business online because they didn't give a discount to a veteran, to me they're like the stolen valor people above. Again, that's my opinion, you don't have to agree.
We fight for the freedom of the store owners of this country to have the right to choose who and when they give a discount, and when some young punk thinks he's the Green Beret GI Joe and earned a mandatory discount it bothers the crap out of me. I'm fully able-bodied, and I have a career, so I'll pay what every other proud American pays, and I'll also park in the same spots as they do.
If a store has a "Veterans parking only" spot, I won't take it - ever. It belongs to a real veteran who fought in a war and is possibly disabled. But if a young punk in a lifted truck parks in that spot and hops out on his own two feet and feels entitled, I get pissed. We have lots of veterans and lots of active duty, and I respect them all, but I also feel they need to respect those before them, and if they don't really need that parking spot, or that discount, I rather they just go about their business and not act like anyone owes them anything.
The irony: I respect the hell out of those who fought in wars, did multiple tours, and if you ask me if they deserve a discount, I'll say yes. Just don't demand it or expect it - let it be a gift, not mandatory.
/soap box rant