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Sort of a bit off track but on subject...
I must admit I saw my step-dad Bob & my Mom struggle for years
he was 29 when he married my mom & bought his 1st house
on Cowell Rd Concord, lil' ranch style 3 bed 1 bath slab home
it was like $23K (not 100% sure), before they stepped up & bought a nice
2 story like 3,000sqft 2-1/2 bath, big 3 car garage & pie shaped huge lot,
in the center on the end of Cobblestone Ct., in Canteberry Village
Concord subdivision...
I think it was like $30k (not 100% sure), a lot bigger house...
But; him being a lifer Union pipefitter, he made great $$ when he was working
he was unemployed/on unemployment funds, like 4-6 months a year...
I wanted nothing to do with that stuff...
I learned a lot about racing & cars from him too &
He did provide a nice home for us always...
I wanted to be my own boss, not have someone dictate when or if I work
or some Union BS, politics dictating it, I did work for a couple unions too
Carpenters, Plumbers & IBEW, before I went out on my own...
1st started a plumbing co., a C-License 1st & then got my general contractors license
went out framing at 1st...
I made sure when I could, I'd buy real-estate, my Uncle & my Grandad
were great influences on me, what to do...
Stay for about 5 or so years (as not to pay capitol gains) & move up...
Bigger better...
I was destined to own property, it was the way out...
My dad Harvey, & my step dad Bob, were working stiff/grunts
working for someone else most their lives...
My dad had a construction business when I was a kid in HS
& when he left my mom, 12 years prior, he had an
Orinda Stage Lines deliveries bus. co., seemed like he was doing well...
Prior to that, when he remarried now his 2nd wife,
he ran/part owner/mngr in a shoe store bus.
Shoe Stable in Lafeyette Ca & Pleasanton, he never made much $$$...
But was comfortable, she worked too at a bank too...
Really nice house in Lafeyette hills, kept going up & up in value...
She took everything, literally only thing left was
his record collection, & player, the refrigerator & the bed
& she took the car a newer 68 (?) Corvette, they just bought,
left him with the 65 Skylark Conv.
Emptied out the bank account...
Then after she/Crystal dumped his ***, he got married to his 3rd wife,
Fatty Patty, she had 4 kids, 2 boys (1, 4 month younger then me, we were 12-13 IIRC),
& 2 adopted girls...
She uprooted him, made him move from Lafeyette, sold that place,
for big $$ at the time & they moved to the Garden Valley, ElDorado county,
bought a 165 acre ranch...
With a double wide trailer, while we built the main house above...
(that place/property did nothing but go up in value, quadrupled)
Probably the best investment he ever made...
Fatty-Patty she then got her degree, all on his dime, became a school psychologist,
uprooted him again, moved them up north to Yreka,
she then dumped him...
see a pattern here ?
And dad came back down to Miwuk Village here in Tuolumne Co. 1980-ish
a place where my family would vacation usually, he always liked it up here
we'd go to the lake or fishing or camping etc.
And then went to work for the school district, driving bus, working in a liquor store
part time & doing security at HS sports/games, here in Sonora area,
& did school maintenance in the summer months...
living in a camper 1st, Broke, Alone...
Barely eked out a living, lived in a small A-frame in the mountains, after the 3rd wife
Fatty Patty, took him for all he was worth...
My Granddad paid off his $51k loan on the cabin...
Dad, still just working for the school district... until he was 62
Until my Grandad died at 9 days before he turned 90
& he/dad inherited a small fortune,
my Granddad was a very smart investor & a savvy financial man
Dad retired the next month, bought a big *** expensive
36' Diesel Pusher/Cummins/Alison 5 speed Class A Motor Home
& traveled, pissed a lot of it away, has never looked back...
He now lives with me since Sept. 2005...
I never wanted to end up like that...
Real Estate, buying right & moving up (& owning my own businesses)
helped me so I never had to, live like that...
I must admit I saw my step-dad Bob & my Mom struggle for years
he was 29 when he married my mom & bought his 1st house
on Cowell Rd Concord, lil' ranch style 3 bed 1 bath slab home
it was like $23K (not 100% sure), before they stepped up & bought a nice
2 story like 3,000sqft 2-1/2 bath, big 3 car garage & pie shaped huge lot,
in the center on the end of Cobblestone Ct., in Canteberry Village
Concord subdivision...
I think it was like $30k (not 100% sure), a lot bigger house...
But; him being a lifer Union pipefitter, he made great $$ when he was working
he was unemployed/on unemployment funds, like 4-6 months a year...
I wanted nothing to do with that stuff...
I learned a lot about racing & cars from him too &
He did provide a nice home for us always...
I wanted to be my own boss, not have someone dictate when or if I work
or some Union BS, politics dictating it, I did work for a couple unions too
Carpenters, Plumbers & IBEW, before I went out on my own...
1st started a plumbing co., a C-License 1st & then got my general contractors license
went out framing at 1st...
I made sure when I could, I'd buy real-estate, my Uncle & my Grandad
were great influences on me, what to do...
Stay for about 5 or so years (as not to pay capitol gains) & move up...
Bigger better...
I was destined to own property, it was the way out...
My dad Harvey, & my step dad Bob, were working stiff/grunts
working for someone else most their lives...
My dad had a construction business when I was a kid in HS
& when he left my mom, 12 years prior, he had an
Orinda Stage Lines deliveries bus. co., seemed like he was doing well...
Prior to that, when he remarried now his 2nd wife,
he ran/part owner/mngr in a shoe store bus.
Shoe Stable in Lafeyette Ca & Pleasanton, he never made much $$$...
But was comfortable, she worked too at a bank too...
Really nice house in Lafeyette hills, kept going up & up in value...
She took everything, literally only thing left was
his record collection, & player, the refrigerator & the bed
& she took the car a newer 68 (?) Corvette, they just bought,
left him with the 65 Skylark Conv.
Emptied out the bank account...
Then after she/Crystal dumped his ***, he got married to his 3rd wife,
Fatty Patty, she had 4 kids, 2 boys (1, 4 month younger then me, we were 12-13 IIRC),
& 2 adopted girls...
She uprooted him, made him move from Lafeyette, sold that place,
for big $$ at the time & they moved to the Garden Valley, ElDorado county,
bought a 165 acre ranch...
With a double wide trailer, while we built the main house above...
(that place/property did nothing but go up in value, quadrupled)
Probably the best investment he ever made...
Fatty-Patty she then got her degree, all on his dime, became a school psychologist,
uprooted him again, moved them up north to Yreka,
she then dumped him...
see a pattern here ?
And dad came back down to Miwuk Village here in Tuolumne Co. 1980-ish
a place where my family would vacation usually, he always liked it up here
we'd go to the lake or fishing or camping etc.
And then went to work for the school district, driving bus, working in a liquor store
part time & doing security at HS sports/games, here in Sonora area,
& did school maintenance in the summer months...
living in a camper 1st, Broke, Alone...
Barely eked out a living, lived in a small A-frame in the mountains, after the 3rd wife
Fatty Patty, took him for all he was worth...
My Granddad paid off his $51k loan on the cabin...
Dad, still just working for the school district... until he was 62
Until my Grandad died at 9 days before he turned 90
& he/dad inherited a small fortune,
my Granddad was a very smart investor & a savvy financial man
Dad retired the next month, bought a big *** expensive
36' Diesel Pusher/Cummins/Alison 5 speed Class A Motor Home
& traveled, pissed a lot of it away, has never looked back...
He now lives with me since Sept. 2005...
I never wanted to end up like that...
Real Estate, buying right & moving up (& owning my own businesses)
helped me so I never had to, live like that...
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